Jeremy – how can you in fact understand the experiences a person explain would definitely even stay the way on your friend’s spouse will respond?
We do not find out for certain, Paula. I admitted the maximum amount of preceding. And yet I’d gamble your reasonable amount of cash upon it, plus I’m perhaps not rethe bestlly a gambler. Become evident, we do not presume the increased loss of attraction/respect might come as a result of the point to their searching for treatments. I think she’d stay thrilled to notice him look for services as well as perform regarding himself….as extende lifetime like doing this didn’t need him away from their duty. Providing that it results in their to be happier regarding their white horse. Nevertheless that he now realizes his ideas about masculinity came from a place of dysfunction and that he is no longer satisfied with the way their marriage is set up, that he now wants her to get a job and start contributing to the upkeep of their marriage, that he now sees that the division of their responsibilities is the source of his stress and that it was all built on the feet of clay of his dysfunctional ideals of masculinity…. Well, there’s where I think the loss of attraction/respect will come in to play if he came home from therapy and told her. Mainly because deeply straight down this girl thinks your a great man is supposed to be sturdy and supply – may wish to try to be stronger and offer – then their doing this actually is the reason why the girl feeling adored.